Brush Those Haters Off - Kathy Caprino

Brush Those Haters Off Hello! Hows your week going?   Great, I hope. Personally, Ive had a few hard knocks this week from several people who indicated theyd like to offer constructive feedback, but then proceeded to tear down and put down. Helpful or Hurtful? Its an interesting experience, to come open-hearted to someone to receive their feedback, thinking it will be a growing experience to hear their thoughts, only to discover that the input is not coming from a kind, compassionate  or caring place, or being offered as a means of help.   Know what I mean?   Have you experienced that lately too?   As a trained therapist, communicator and energy worker, I feel energy.   I feel a vast energetic difference between words that come from someone who has clear vision, whos done the inner work, and who is offering feedback from a caring,  service-oriented place, versus  input from one who hasnt done the hard work of examining herself and understanding her own fears, vulnerabilities or dark side.    Sure, there are times when we hear critical input and it hurts, but we know deep down that its well-intended and important to take in.   But in the cases where the giver is not intending to be helpful,  (and is just lashing out instead),  we should NOT take it in. Its vitally important to be able to differentiate.   After all, (as my new friend just shared), You dont have to catch every ball thats thrown at you. As hard as it is to be torn down, Im using it as fodder for growth.  Im taking the time to settle into it and feel what its teaching me.   Im looking at how I co-created the space for it.  Im  also continuing to build stronger boundaries, and remembering that not everyone is going to like us!   As You Spread Your Wings, You Bump into More Things Ive heard, and now believe, that the clearer we get about who we are and what were doing here, the more powerful and purposeful we are on that path, the more people will find us off-putting or threatening (and unlikable)!   Ive heard it said that if youre not offending anyone, youre not taking a strong enough stand!   Intriguing concept, and Im seeing a good deal of validity in it. As Ive been experiencing some challenging feedback that didnt feel as if it were coming from a pure place, perhaps you have too?   I hope not, but if so, please remember this:   Youre awesome, and youre working very diligently to come from a place of service and to help many, from your heart.   You are special, and its time to stop shying away from your specialness.   You have the right to share your uniqueness in a powerful way with others.    And if others bristle or lash out, dont dishonor yourself by beating yourself up that youve done something wrong.   Treat yourself with love and compassion (and find compassion in your heart for the hater).    But also find the courage (and take the time) to learn the important lessons you need to experience, all along the way.   Brush Those Haters Off!   If someone tears you down with cruelty or out of spite or jealously, brush the hater off and pick yourself up!    Dont be dragged down.   Certainly, find compassion and understanding in your heart, but remember that only you can understand and recognize your true path.   Keep true to yourself, and dont let the detractors knock you down. (Deep thanks go to my amazing virtual assistant Yoana Brecker, of Advantage Virtual Support for that sound and caring piece of advice!)   Have you been put down lately out of the blue?   What did it teach you?   Please SHARE.

How You Can Tweak Your Resume If Youre Entering a New Field

How You Can Tweak Your Resume If Youre Entering a New Field The top resume writing services can help you change careers. Change can be a scary thing, especially when the change directly affects your future. This is why so many people hesitate when it comes to shifting industries. Those in this process may be transitioning into a new industry with little to no experience or with only indirect experience from their previous jobs. If you’re in this situation, you may be wondering just how to approach this change. First of all, we would like to congratulate you on this important first step! Second, recreating your resume to match your transition to a new field is not the easiest task, but it is certainly doable. Let us show you how. Figure Out If There’s Any Way Your Previous and Current Industries Match Up This will take a bit of thought, but it’s worth it in the long run when it comes to making your resume easier to approach. There may be elements of your previous career that sync with your potential new one and can be described in such a way that will catch the interest of prospective employers in your new field. This tip should prove especially relevant to  professional  executive  resume  writers  with a long list of strong, eye-catching skills. Rewrite Your Resume Entirely Your current resume won’t be one size fits all. Your high involvement in your last field versus your smaller level of involvement in your current one will glare through unless you rework things properly. Take our last suggestion into account as you rewrite your resume to fit your new industry. Your skills likely still matter much more than you may think! Think about what the positions you’re applying for need and consider whether your skills still line up. Don’t Be Afraid to Name Drop If you’ve had the privilege of collaborating with high-ranking professionals during your time in your old industry, be sure to highlight this! Showing you are extremely qualified in one field and were able to perform well in another position will bode well in the eyes of recruiters in your new field. Summarize Yourself This will take utilization of all of the above tips we’ve mentioned. Make use of the impact you left upon your old industry and the skills you’ve developed within it and weave it into a descriptive paragraph that complements the current position you seek. This is a brilliant way to market yourself in any industry and lets employers know quickly and directly what you can offer to the industry and their company. We hope this brief list will help professional executive resume writers as they transition into a brand new industry. This isn’t the easiest change to make, but it should prove worthwhile. If you need any more help or advice, feel free to reach out to your local  executive  resume  writer  services. There are a large number of  top  resume  writing  services  that can  help you reorient your resume properly.

Smart Job Seekers Breaks These Resume Writing Rules

Smart Job Seekers Breaks These Resume Writing RulesIf you are looking for a job and don't have that regular daily exercise, then what you need is a smart job seekers break these resume writing rules. So, you need to get more exercising, and as your body gets used to a different shape, then it can burn calories very fast. The reason why you have to have that kind of exercise is because you will get the right kind of food in your body. Then your body will actually start working out at the right pace.A good idea is to make use of some kind of sports equipment that will be good enough for you to exercise. But you should know that it is not the normal equipment that you can find out there. You will need some specialized equipment that you can use in order to get a better fitness. You can use a treadmill for example, which can be very effective to burn calories and lose weight. This is why this is what you should consider.When you are looking for a job and you are looking for a fitness tra iner, it is very important that you read the latest edition of the Smart Job Seekers Break These Resume Writing Rules and never believe any employer who promises you a great job. All you need to do is have an idea of the right kind of health and fitness program. The first step in getting this kind of program is to get informed about the fitness program.If you are one of those job seekers who are serious about their job, then you will be doing everything you can to find a job. If you want to have a body and a good physique, then you need to do something about your health. Before starting on your fitness program, you need to know a few things about it and write a smart resume that would impress the employer.If you have a pre-setprogram, then it is important that you get the right kind of fitness trainer. But if you don't have the time to go to the gym, or if you are busy and have very little time, then you should consider other ways of getting a fitness trainer. You can choose from th e internet, online community, fitness trainers or from local gyms. When you know the right kind of fitness trainer, it is time to look for some kind of gyms that will take you along with them.There are various gyms that offer you a physical fitness training, but there are also others that will offer you the right kind of training. Before starting your program, it is very important that you know about all the instructions. It is important that you follow the guidelines that are provided by the trainer and also make sure that you meet with a doctor to have proper medication.There are certain pieces of advice for the job seekers, so if you are serious about your job, then these tips can help you a lot. But in order to get those great jobs, you need to follow the guidelines given by the trainer. If you do that, you will definitely succeed in your career.

Why Do Celebrities Have LinkedIn Profiles

Why Do Celebrities Have LinkedIn Profiles Stars â€" they’re just like us. They eat cheeseburgers, they pay parking meters, and some of them are even on LinkedIn. That’s right. Along with your annoying former classmates, ex-boyfriends and dad, people like Martha Stewart and Barack Obama are on LinkedIn. And, as someone who spends a not-insignificant amount of time on the social networking site, I want to know why. I’ve recently become obsessed with famous people’s profiles. I don’t know about you, but I use LinkedIn for job-related activities like sharing my articles, looking for sources, obsessing over whether my profile picture looks professional enough and sending my friends stupid auto-generated InMail messages. There’s no way Obama is doing any of that. So what is he doing? Is he, like me, dodging connection requests from PR people? Is it a gag? Part of a sponsorship thing? I set out to uncover what the deal is with celebrity LinkedIns. Here’s what I found. Can everyone stopped inviting me to 'LinkedIn' please? I dont want to be Linked in. Join my new website 'LeftOut'. Wanna be 'LeftOut'? I do. â€" RainnWilson (@rainnwilson) May 31, 2011 Celebrity LinkedIn Profiles Are Awesome If you’re ever bored at work, I highly recommend going down the celebrity LinkedIn rabbit hole. All you have to do is type a star’s name into the search bar, go to his or her page and start reading. When you’re done, head to the “People Also Viewed” sidebar on the right, choose another famous name, and click. Repeat until your shift is over. Sure, some of the profiles are fake, but others seem pretty darn real. Regardless of authenticity, profiles purportedly belonging to famous people are chock-full of gems, like the fact rapper Gucci Mane lists knowing English under his accomplishments. New England Patriots player Julian Edelman mentions how much he likes burgers in his bio. Singer Ariana Grande puts Microsoft Office as a skill. The deeper you dig, the better it gets. One of Jessica Alba‘s interests is Target (which, yeah, same). TV host Steve Harvey wrote that he attended the “School of Life.” Lil Wayne, or some enterprising individual with the URL www.linkedin.com/in/lilwayne, says his job since 1982 is “Greatest Rapper Alive.” What are the duties that come with that? Oh, you know â€" “getting that paper,” “laying down phat beats” and “sippin’.” The endorsements section is particularly juicy. Apparently President Donald Trump’s former lawyer Michael Cohen once felt the need to endorse Donald Trump, Jr. for “Real Estate”? Nearly 90 people have endorsed Rick Ross for PowerPoint. And, my personal favorite: Five LinkedIn users have stepped up to endorse former basketball player Shaquille O’Neal for “basketry.” Every time I get a message from LinkedIn, it feels like my mom is trying to set up a playdate with the wrong kid. â€" Jordan Peele (@JordanPeele) June 12, 2013 Some Stars Are Actually on LinkedIn According to Dan Roth, the editor-in-chief of LinkedIn, many profiles in celebrities’ names are legit. In some cases, LinkedIn has reached out to them to officially establish a partnership, but in others, the stars simply decided they wanted to sign up. “We all have to carve out our own career paths now; that is as true for celebrities as it is for anyone else,” he says. “Smart celebrities realize they have to be thinking about what their next play is.” LinkedIn can help celebrities showcase their interests, just like it does for normal people, Roth says. If you were interested in getting a job in a new field, for example, you’d probably start connecting with people who worked in that industry, commenting on relevant news stories and following professional organizations. The same can go for a celebrity looking for new opportunities â€" for example, an athlete making plans in case of injury, or a philanthropist looking for a new cause. LinkedIn also runs an influencer program. There are about 500 participants right now; you can identify them by the blue or gold “in” badge on their profiles. That badge indicates that they’re active, because LinkedIn will take it away if they don’t post often enough. For example, Karlie Kloss, who posted an article in May 2018, has one. Gwen Stefani, whose last link share was in 2016, does not. “We’re doing it because we believe that these people have something really powerful to give back,” Roth says. “If they’re no longer giving back … then the badge shouldn’t be there.” Roth says he likes to focus on posts, not profiles, because they contain valuable insight from the experts. These pull-back-the-curtain sort of updates “are incredible ways for celebrities to show that what they’re doing is real life,” says Roth, who hosts a video interview series that highlights influencers like Jennifer Lopez. It’s also good for their own brand, given that LinkedIn has 610 million members around the world. Celebrities can’t pass up that audience or chance for engagement. For example, Mark Cuban and Richard Branson both regularly share, like and comment on posts. They also can’t ignore the one other major benefit of the site: “The comments tend to be respectful because people are in the business mindset when they’re here,” Roth says. “There’s no flaming, very little trolling on LinkedIn.” Adding a bunch of contacts on linkedin from gmail. Perhaps you're one of my victims. â€" iJustine (@ijustine) October 28, 2008 But Imposters Abound This is pretty obviously not Tiger Woods, unless he has changed his entire face since the last time I saw him. It’s doubtful this is Anne Hathaway, given that she lists her job as SEO executive and not Princess of Genovia. And as much as I want to believe this profile is actually Beyoncé, I feel like she probably wouldn’t describe herself as “most awarded human alive.” LinkedIn is littered with fake celebrity accounts, as Digiday pointed out in April. LinkedIn wrote in 2018 that the company uses “utilize a variety of automated techniques, coupled with human reviewers and member reporting, to keep our members safe from all types of bad actors and abuse,” but there’s clearly still work to do. (Side note: Want to know how to recognize a fake LinkedIn profile? If there’s no photo, bad grammar or suspicious info, you should probably tread carefully.) In my research, though, I also uncovered another kind of poser. Everyone from R.L. Stine to Chrissy Teigen has tweeted about LinkedIn’s overzealous email system, but few appear to truly have profiles on the site. Case in point: Actor Zach Braff tweeted in 2012 about how much he hates Linkedin invitations, but nobody even pretending to be him comes up in my search results. Of course, he and Stine and Teigen could have deleted their profiles (or they could exist in a secret part of the site). But my conclusion is that while some stars see LinkedIn as serious business, others just think it’s a punchline. I’m so sorry, I just saw that everyone I know is awaiting my LinkedIn reply. â€" Jesse Tyler Ferguson (@jessetyler) February 8, 2018 They Don’t Want to Talk (to Me) About It As far as real LinkedIn users go, getting celebrities to discuss LinkedIn proved difficult. I guess they’re busy or something? Oprah Winfrey declined to comment, but at least her people emailed me back. (Dozens of other publicists did not. Perhaps I should have InMailed them.) Goop queen Gwyneth Paltrow’s spokeswoman told me Paltrow herself couldn’t talk but she â€" the spokeswoman â€" could answer questions. So I learned that Paltrow does personally log in and post on her LinkedIn, though she only uses it “sparingly.” When asked whether Paltrow sees LinkedIn as an important social network, the spokeswoman said “yes,” adding that “we have a strong presence on LinkedIn for goop.” Huh! The most interesting response was from Diplo’s publicist, who said his profile was “primarily tongue-in-cheek.” Makes sense, because the DJ lists himself as having been the “admiral” at his record label Mad Decent for the past 118 years and 5 months. They may not have commented to MONEY, but certain celebrities have spoken about LinkedIn before. In 2013, talk show host Conan O’Brien decided he wanted to become the site’s most-followed user, declaring that “I will not rest until I become the number one personality, or ‘Influencer,’ as you call it, on the site.” No word on whether he achieved that lofty goal. And You Can Try to Connect, But… OK, here’s what you really want to know: Can you connect with a celebrity on LinkedIn? The answer is that you can try. For most people, like baseball player Alex Rodriguez, you can just click “Connect” and it’ll let you do so â€" albeit with a recommendation that you pen a note to “remind people who you are and explain why you want to connect.” But for some, like Whitney Port, you have to enter their email address to verify that you actually know them. However, as part of this investigation, I ignored most of that and randomly started trying to connect with celebrities. I sent requests to B.J. Novak, Misha Collins, Issa Rae, Jeb Bush, Martha Stewart, Amy Schumer and Sarah Michelle Gellar. None have accepted yet, but I’ll keep you posted. Check my LinkedIn page for updates.

Tiffany Tilley - Work It Daily

Tiffany Tilley - Work It Daily Recruiter Info Name: Tiffany Tilley Title: Medical Recruiter Email: tiffany@spectrumacc.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffany-tilley-a3a34672 Phone: 702-879-4102 Twitter: https://twitter.com/Tiffany_Tilleyy Company Info Company: Spectrum Accountable Care Location: Las Vegas, NV Website: solutionsbyacs.com/Spectrum Careers Page: solutionsbyacs.com/Spectrum?sid=2 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/groups/5132210 Facebook: www.facebook.com/SpectrumACC/?fref=ts For Job Candidates Preferred Method To Be Contacted By A Candidate: LinkedIn Preferred Process For Following Up On Application: A phone call Things That Impress You In A Candidate: Someone whose resume is well put together and follows up. Things Candidates Must Include To Be Considered For Job: It’s vital that you include all relevant experience on your resume, as well as 3 professional references- name and phone. Things That Will Disqualify A Candidate From Getting Considered: Not including a phone number you can be reached at. Can Candidates Apply For Multiple Positions And Not Get Penalized?: Yes Recruiter's Perspective What's your favorite quote? “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” ? George Bernard Shaw What do you like to do in your free time? Enjoy activities with my family In a sentence, why do you enjoy working at your company? I help people do what they love to do. In a sentence, how does your company have fun on a regular basis? Regular potlucks and monthly happy hours *cue smiles* In a sentence, how would you describe the employees at your company? Teamwork oriented and warm hearted. Have you joined our career growth club?Join Us Today!

What I Learned From Moving Back In With My Parents For My Career

What I Learned From Moving Back In With My Parents For My Career According to an analysis of 2016 U.S. Census data by the Pew Research Center, more young adults are living at home for longer periods time. The data reported that 15 percent of millennials between the ages of 25 and 35 were living at home with their parents additional research shows that among young adults who had moved back in with their parents, the median length of their stay was three years. Overall, the number of millennials living at home, or moving back in with their parents has increased from previous generations. In comparison, only 10 percent of Generation X-ers between the ages of 25 and 35 lived with their parents in 2000.It would be too easy to write off the trend of millennials living back at home as a side-effect of thelazy millennial myth, but in reality, more millennials are forgoing traditional adult milestones like buying a home or starting a family all in the name of pursuing advanced degrees and cha sing job opportunities, in an economy with exorbitant housing prices and stagnant wages.At this very moment, Im one of those on-trend millennials. After I was terminated from a full-time job with benefits last fall, I bounced back-and-forth between unemployment and underemployment for almost six months. A string of freelance gigs, temp jobs, and help from family kept me from homelessness. But it has recently made more financial sense to move back in with a parent. Here are five things Ive learned1. Having an exit strategy is essential.Ive experienced the freedom of living alone, in my own place for almost a year. To say that I was unhappy about moving back to my parents home, would be an understatement. But the promise of being able to live on my own again, is ample motivation to have an exit strategy which includes a written plan with the specific date that I intend to move out, how much money I need to save, and how much debt stands in my way. An exit strategy can also include eme rgency resources in case living at home stops feeling like a healthy choice.2. Its necessary to have a conversation about expectations.Does my mom love me? Yes. Am I allowed to run amuck while living at home? No. Before I moved back, I knew that it was necessary to have a conversation about my contributions to the household. As a creative freelancer, a wifi connection is my bread and butter, so mooching off of my moms internet didnt seem right. I made aya to ask what is expected of me during my stay, so that I can maintain both my independence and my sanity.3. You will have to do what you dont want to do, in order to get where you want to be.I havent worked at a full-time job for more than a year, since graduating from college three years ago. Im finally at a point, where Im building up work as a writer. But when I moved home, I had to be honest about my poor financial habits and the fact that part-time writing cant sustain me. As a result, Ive had to consider things like working a less-than desirable customer service job, in order to help me reach my goals.4. Parents are people too.I think that it is easy to forget that our parents are only human. They have lived a lot more life than we have, and they are susceptible to the saatkorn successes and failures as us. While I live at home, I want to make intentional time to reconnect with my mom, and take advantage of the fact that we can now have conversations that are more open and more understanding now that Im an adult.5. Its not the end of the world.I do miss the ability to sit on my own couch sans pants with a glass of wine. But living at home with your parents isnt the end of the world. It often beats the alternative, and provides the time and motivation to reset your priorities. I had a semi-permanent frown on my face my first few nights back home, but have started to make peace with my reality. It helps that I dont have to panic about being able to pay rent and utilities for the next year.

Why People Arent Talking About Writing a Resume after Being a Server for Years and What You Need to Do Today

Why People Arent Talking About Writing a Resume after Being a Server for Years and What You Need to Do Today When working on a resume, make sure to prevent clerical errors which can lead to a possible employer to weed yours out very fast. Have a look at the subsequent guide to receive advice on how to compose an exceptional server resume. Your resume ought to be truthful, error free and needs to be relevant and specific. It should have no grammatical errors. The Ultimate Writing a Resume after Being a Server for Years Trick For example, if youve got a substantial employment gap since your final position, you can want to use a functional resume rather than a chronological one. It isnt fatal to have just one employer listed on your resume in a very long career. If you would like any more information regarding my career you are able to go through my resume. There are lots of basic forms of resumes used to make an application for job openings. Resume writing services offer you various packages and some also provide excess mentoring or other job search and interviewing information that someone may benefit from to raise your professionalism and dependability. When it has to do with finding jobs as a servers, you ought to use the exact saatkorn techniques which you would employ in other regions of the nation. Even though a basic serving job is fairly simple to find, servers who need to work in nicer restaurants will need in order to demonstrate their abilities and experience. There are lots of jobs out there for restaurant servers. The main reason for writing a cover letter is to grab the interest of a work employer at the exact first glance. There are an assortment of stylistic points to contemplate throughout the writing process. Writing a resume can be challenging for a wide selection of reasons. Just take a look at the leading resume writing services to consider. How to Choose Writing a Resume after Being a Server for Years As soon as you have written and organized your information according to the kind of resume youve chosen, make certain to format it according to typical professional standards. Our resume library has an amazing number of samples. However much or what type of work experience youve got, theres a resume format that is likely to make your qualifications shine. Therefore, its important to comprehend which resume format is most effective for your distinctive needs. If You Read Nothing Else Today, Read This Report on Writing a Resume after Being a Server for Years Bear in mind that should you have any certifications, like a Certification in Food Handling and Safety, you should put it at the peak of your resume. If you would like to develop into a fantastic Server Bartender, you should be able to cope with pressure and manage stress. Servers also finish a wide range of other job duties too. They need to create great resumes to beat the competition. What You Must Know About Writing a Resume after Bei ng a Server for Years There are a few things that dont belong on a resume for work. It looks like the men within this vignette cant sympathize with the women. While all resumes should offer information on your work and education experience, together with your abilities and accomplishments, there are various ways to present this info. For most people, however, its most effective to refrain from including parenting as a true job on the resume.